I've been weighting the pros and cons to being in a relationship. Nothing is on the horizon, I've just been thinking. I've been wondering why people give up their independence to be in relationships. I'm trying to figure out what the price point might be for whether or not a relationship happens. I've been told I think too much. Thinking is a gift.
In a relationship:
When one enters into a relationship, there are many things gained. One gains a partner with whom he or she can grow and share life. Another gain, someone to call or text. There is always someone to come home to; always noise in the house. Always someone to go do something with, either planned or spontaneous. There are holidays to share and new traditions just waiting to be created. One always has someone who can do something for them, or the reverse, someone to dote on. One has someone to think out loud with or debate. Chores can be divided. Money can be pooled. Kind words can be spoken, and heard. One can hear "I love you" before they close their eyes at night, and drift off to sleep. There is someone to plan and live dream vacations, or even stay-cations. Still another gain, one has someone to share a new series on TV, or Netflix, etc. Meals can be prepared and eaten together. Strange noises in the house can be investigated by someone else. One has a partner to cuddle with, and hands are available to be held.
Being single:
Windows in the car may be opened and hair may be turned loose to dance freely in the breeze. One decides what music to listen to and the decibel it should be heard. And if one wants to listen to Ed sing "What do I know", or "Eraser" a hundred times in a row...she can. One can stay up as late as they'd like, or sleep in, too. House windows may also be left open at night to enjoy the sounds of owls and tree frogs. No negotiating for what is on the screen. Binge watching for hours is acceptable. Dishes do not need to be used, or even washed daily IF used. Chips and dip qualify as a complete meal. Proper sleeping posture is sprawled out, in the middle of the bed. Bed making is optional. There is always enough hot water. One can talk to his or her pets, knowing no one else will hear them.
I'm sure there are many pros I'm missing for both being in a relationship and being single. These lists are by no means complete.
A little alone time to think is always good for the soul.
Being alone can be lonely at times, but it's okay.
~Lisa Kroll
I choose love.
I choose positivity.
I choose happiness.
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