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| Earth moving as I jet off to Chicago |
Sometimes, adventures come at exactly the right time.
After a long, and unusually emotional week of teaching, I had a weekend date with seven of my high school friends. Some of these people I have known since the fifth grade. After school, I drove an hour north and caught an evening flight to Chicago. Technically, it takes less time to drive to Chi-Town from my house, than it does to fly. Our group usually likes to do this trip when we can all have three days off, this weekend would not be a 3 day weekend for me. I told my friends to enjoy the weekend. I didn't have the energy to drive north after working all day, chat until the wee hours of the night, then to head home in less than 48 hours where I would still need to spend several weekend hours in my classroom prepping for the week ahead. So, I was pampered. My friends have generous hearts...it might be an unspoken stipulation for being in our "club". My flight arrangements were made for me so that I wouldn't miss out on the weekend fun. The benefit of frequent flyer miles: a gift from my world traveling buddy.
I arrived at O'Hare five minutes after the world traveler. He had started his day in Lisbon, Spain, before stopping in Boston and then landing in Chicago. We took a taxi to the hotel, and after checking in, had fifteen minutes before we needed to head out to meet up with the others. Having arrived earlier in the afternoon, they had all ready started the reunion fun! As in our past trips, we traveled from different parts of the world; four states...cars, trains and planes connecting us.
Dinner was at the Copper Fox, per our gastronome's suggestion and was fabulous! As the late comers sat down, others were all ready imbibing. The waitress asked what we wanted but needed to wait, as I was too busy tasting drinks around the table before I could decide. In the end, a whiskey drink called ONE FLEW SOUTH landed at my place. A little tongue in cheek fun as I had flown north! It was a mixture of diplomatic reserve extra anejo rum, lime juice, luxardo maraschino liqueur house demerara, barrel aged bitters, and tart cherry juice. A great combination, and the best way to kick off the weekend with my buddies.
Over the next hour and a half, there was laughing, stories and sharing of food. After dinner, there was talk of chocolate dessert, but we wandered back towards the hotel to hang out in the suite between the girl's rooms.
Upstairs we toasted one another again, and began to really relax and catch up in private. Another of our classmates happened to be in town as well, up from Atlanta, celebrating his mother's 80th birthday with his family. We chatted with this friend for a few hours, too. It was funny to watch as he worked the conversations around the room, basically interviewing each of us. He also admitted to a little facebook stalking before hand. Aren't we all guilty of that? I don't think I've seen this friend in person since we graduated high school. Facebook has the power to make one feel they haven't missed a beat with friends.
This get-together for our main group, was much over due. A year has passed and each of us has grown a little more since then. Grand babies have been born, a new business venture has started, education is being continued, a spouse was lost to illness and another is leaving due to divorce, parents continue to age, children continue to grow, and our souls continue to heal from those every day challenges we all face. We shared our successes and our hurts. We talked about the love we have for others we grew up with and our wishes that they would feel comfortable to come and join us some time. We all have secrets and pains. Share them or not, we understand that growing up has been hard, but we also know that our early in life friends knew us when we were still dreamers. Friendships that can weather life are the best friendships. This group coming together is what true friendship looks like. The seven of us seem to turn back into our 18-year-old selves when we are together, but we are realist and know we now have a wisdom about us. We are people who can come together, and love one another, no matter what.
The weekend plans this trip were simply to share time together. We each have a role to fill, and our social director suggested we see Beautiful: The Carole King Musical at the Palace Theatre. We are the generation who grew up influenced by the music Ms. King created. Our production was on Saturday at 2pm. Perfect! After our late night Friday, we gathered near 11 to walk to brunch and then the theatre. Brunch was at the Hubbard Inn and featured Rustic Wheat Avocado Toast, Blackened Tiger Shrimp and Grits, Pork Belly Benedict, and Slow Roasted Corned Beef Hash all washed down with mimosas. After brunch, we expected to encounter the Women's March due to our timing, but we must have walked on paths not being used by the march.
The show was wonderful! We couldn't help but comment at intermission, 'I didn't know she helped influence THAT song." We were reminded that Carole King IS an amazing lady! I found myself wiggling my feet, but really wanting to be up and dancing, with the music. After the show, we walked back towards our hotel and shopped along the way. We tried to decide what the evening plans should include. Dancing? Karaoke? More talking? Many suggestions were thrown into the ring for consideration. Sitting in the hotel bar, we got serious about deciding the evenings plan. In the end, we decided we'd order pizza, buy a game, change into our pajamas, and stay in for the night!
Pizza was ordered from Lou Malnati's. Two brave souls donned PJ's. Drinks were made for all. Our game of choice...Cards Against Humanity. Everyone laughed until they cried at some point in the evening. "New" words were discovered. Interesting conversations were sparked..."how does THAT happen???" was asked. Explanations were given in code, which made us laugh harder. Siri was asked, and responded "You don't need to ask that question!" Truly, tears from laughter filled our eyes.
We only went to bed that night because we were all exhausted and are a bit too old, and too smart, to sleep on couches when we had paid for feather topped beds.
Two in our group had to leave before Sunday brunch. Our weekend together was coming to an end. The few of us who were still together went to the LuxBar where amazing Bloody Mary's topped the menu. As we returned to the hotel, hugs and kisses were shared. Ubers arrived and we parted ways. Until next time, I will love my friends from a distance, and stay in continual touch. We have a thread of messages that at times can instantly blow up to 95+ comments! Blink and you'll have to spend half an hour catching up! Thank you FaceBook for reconnecting this group a few years back when we were planning our high school class reunion. This was our 36th year get-together.
For others who are lucky enough to have friends like I do, I hope you realize too what a special connection and joy are friendships. We all have secrets, but when you can let down your guard and trust others, you can heal and grow in unthinkable ways.
My take aways from the weekend were literally an Anchor bag...meaning a bag with Anchors on it. We had a running joke about bags we'd be bringing...heavy because they felt like they held anchors. One of our tribe made sure we all actually had these bags for our next trip. Another in our tribe gave us all necklaces with words that reminded her of each of us stamped onto a key. Together we are Belief, Fearless, Inspire(ing), have Faith, Strength and Hope. That sums us up nicely. I think her word might be Joy. While she is certainly beautiful on the outside, her inside Joy simply radiates.
In the end, we all know We've Gotta Friend....or two, or seven.
The weekend plans this trip were simply to share time together. We each have a role to fill, and our social director suggested we see Beautiful: The Carole King Musical at the Palace Theatre. We are the generation who grew up influenced by the music Ms. King created. Our production was on Saturday at 2pm. Perfect! After our late night Friday, we gathered near 11 to walk to brunch and then the theatre. Brunch was at the Hubbard Inn and featured Rustic Wheat Avocado Toast, Blackened Tiger Shrimp and Grits, Pork Belly Benedict, and Slow Roasted Corned Beef Hash all washed down with mimosas. After brunch, we expected to encounter the Women's March due to our timing, but we must have walked on paths not being used by the march. The show was wonderful! We couldn't help but comment at intermission, 'I didn't know she helped influence THAT song." We were reminded that Carole King IS an amazing lady! I found myself wiggling my feet, but really wanting to be up and dancing, with the music. After the show, we walked back towards our hotel and shopped along the way. We tried to decide what the evening plans should include. Dancing? Karaoke? More talking? Many suggestions were thrown into the ring for consideration. Sitting in the hotel bar, we got serious about deciding the evenings plan. In the end, we decided we'd order pizza, buy a game, change into our pajamas, and stay in for the night!
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| Dinner and a game |
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| Local Treats |
We only went to bed that night because we were all exhausted and are a bit too old, and too smart, to sleep on couches when we had paid for feather topped beds.
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Two in our group had to leave before Sunday brunch. Our weekend together was coming to an end. The few of us who were still together went to the LuxBar where amazing Bloody Mary's topped the menu. As we returned to the hotel, hugs and kisses were shared. Ubers arrived and we parted ways. Until next time, I will love my friends from a distance, and stay in continual touch. We have a thread of messages that at times can instantly blow up to 95+ comments! Blink and you'll have to spend half an hour catching up! Thank you FaceBook for reconnecting this group a few years back when we were planning our high school class reunion. This was our 36th year get-together.
For others who are lucky enough to have friends like I do, I hope you realize too what a special connection and joy are friendships. We all have secrets, but when you can let down your guard and trust others, you can heal and grow in unthinkable ways.
My take aways from the weekend were literally an Anchor bag...meaning a bag with Anchors on it. We had a running joke about bags we'd be bringing...heavy because they felt like they held anchors. One of our tribe made sure we all actually had these bags for our next trip. Another in our tribe gave us all necklaces with words that reminded her of each of us stamped onto a key. Together we are Belief, Fearless, Inspire(ing), have Faith, Strength and Hope. That sums us up nicely. I think her word might be Joy. While she is certainly beautiful on the outside, her inside Joy simply radiates.
In the end, we all know We've Gotta Friend....or two, or seven.
*****
Additional thoughts:
My weekend away happened a month ago, but more recently I have been questioning what makes a friendship weather the test of time, how long one needs to know someone before they can truly call them a friend, and at what point does one earn the title of friend?
I don't believe we can have too many friends in this life, and I think friendship becomes undefinable when you are at your lowest point and these people whom you call friend step up and go above and beyond what you would have expected. One of those times for me was when I was dealing with my mom's terminal illness, and my friends stepped up to nurture my soul. Then, I had times when I thought my life might end because I was dealing with a divorce, and friends stepped up once again and loved me despite that, encouraging me to push on, telling me I was strong and brave and capable and beautiful and that everything was going to be all right. And accomplishments...friends celebrate big and little accomplishments, too.
I have watched friends lose those they love, and have known others who have traveled great distances just to hold a hand and be an ear. I know others who right this minute are sitting by bedsides in hospice care, so death doesn't happen alone for their friends. Truly these friendships are signs from above that we can and should care for one another, and that it's easy to do!
Friends are not just people who share the fun times in our lives. Friends are there for the dark times too, and they stand with you, no matter what.
Wouldn't the world be a nicer place if we could all be kind to one another like we are to our best of friends?
~Lisa Kroll
Friend, Member of the Class of '82, Hope, Love Warrior
Blogging Music: Carole King - Tapestry (1971)
Friend, Member of the Class of '82, Hope, Love Warrior
Blogging Music: Carole King - Tapestry (1971)
additional pictures from Ferris Bueller's Weekend Off:
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| Magnificent Mile from our Suite View |
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| Fourth Presbyterian Church of Chicago from our Suite View |
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| In the morning, Suite View looking out the other window...Lake Michigan |
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| When someone has a selfie stick and says...smile! |
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| ...and smile! |
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| ...and smile! |
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| ...and just after I said smile...they thought I was done! lol Please know, they actually ASK me to get out the selfie stick! No one wants to own one, but everyone is happy they know someone who does! |
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| Chicago River with a little ice |
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| We all recall having a Social Studies book in high school that stated you could see Lake Michigan from every room in these towers. We all wondered if that's really true. |
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| I love these lines against the blue sky! |
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| Sitting on a stone, only evidence from the Women's March that we saw. |
